I watched this video a couple of days ago, and it struck me how odd the world is right now. Everything is dismantling, and we don’t know how to react. We feel alone, because dating is no more, friendships are no more. We are all alone. But we want to be alone. It’s freeing to be alone.
But if loneliness is just a feeling, then it’ll go away, like other feelings. Eventually, that is. But we mustn’t fight it. We must accept it, accept its pain, its headache. Accept that the world is going to take the path it takes. We do what it takes to improve it, in a moral, constructive way, but we stay detached from the results.
Because loneliness and melancholy will be there occasionally, even if we have the best of friends. Even if we have the best relationship, the best pet, the best life. So if we can’t be okay with that feeling, we will constantly be anxious, trying to fix it, annoying everyone around us, until we hurt them or they hurt us.